How Can I Get My Girlfriend Back?

Hi,

So she left you and now you are trying to figure out how “Can I get my girlfriend back.” The problem is that may not be the right thing for you. You have to look at both sides of it and see if it is worth going through all the pain of having to break up again. There is no doubt that in asking “can I get my girlfriend back” that you are really opening not only yourself but her up for what can be lots of emotional problems and may get you nothing more than more heartbreak.

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Make Yourself a List

What you are going to do is make two lists. One list is going to be reasons that you should try to find out “can I get my girlfriend back.” The other list will be0 reasons you shouldn't put yourself through that.

On the list of ideas about “can I get my girlfriend back you will inventory all the reasons that it is her that you need. You will try to find out exactly why it is that your life is better off with her. Look for the big things that are the most obvious and also the small things.

On the list against, really search hard to find out why it shouldn't be that you are together. What does she bring out in you? Is it good or bad? Pay close attention to both lists and be honest with the answers.

If you have decided beyond all doubt that you should be together then comes how you are going to go about telling her and convincing her. You may be totally convinced that the two of you are perfect together but until she is it doesn't matter.

The Face To Face Meeting

The best thing is going to be seeing her face to face and trying to work things out. If you have been able to remain friendly then she may be willing to do that and to give you a fair hearing. What is really going to help this is if you are able to keep that friendly relationship there. If she isn't willing to see you or talk to you then there is nothing you can do when you are serious about “can I get my girlfriend back.”

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Now What? Is There Anything I Can Do?

The tough thing about all of this is that if she is unwavering in her desire to not have anything to do with you there is nothing that you can do. You can sit in a holding pattern for a while but that doesn't do you a lot of good. You need to be able to admit it when things aren't going to workout and then move on with your life. Just because she has decided that she no longer wants anything to do with you doesn't mean that you deserve that. Obviously she is ready for that new beginning and that is something that you should be as well. The question, “Can I get my girlfriend back?” may be a tough one to deal with but don't let that answer dictate your life. Rise above it.


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Ex Wants To Get Back Together, But I Don't

Hi,

So you must be very excited? Or perhaps apprehensive?

But stop and think about this first ......

Your ex wants to get back together? Why?

Is it going to get you where you want to go?

Is it going to make you a better and more secure person if you do get back together?

Is your heart in it? If not then you probably don't need to be getting back together.

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If the result of the two of you getting together is like a volcano exploding then you don't need to get back together. All of this may be totally clear in your head but in theirs it may seem lie the world is crashing down. Do you get back together for them? That is going to have to be something that you decide when the ex wants to get back together.

When you are a couple everything is supposed to be to the mutual benefit of the two of you together. What happens, though, if the relationship ends and your ex wants to get back together? There is no more 'you' as in the collective you and them. It is only the solitary 'you' that matters. Don't cave in to their desire when ex wants back together just because you are made to feel guilty. You should only do it if the two of you are benefited by being together.

There are some relationships that are explosive in a good way but they can also seem like a mountain is exploding every time the two of you get together. Worlds collide and destruction comes. The best thing to do, even if your ex wants to get back together really bad, is to not let it happen. It causes too much stress on you and them. If you don't let it happen you are doing the right thing for both of you.

The worst thing that you can do is pretend that everything is ok when your ex wants to get back together. They may be totally devastated by it all and your heart breaks a bit for the pain that they are going through. You may feel a little guilty for things happening the way that they did and for your lack of desire to get back together but don't let that make you do something that traps you both. Going into a relationship out of obligation isn't really a good thing for either one. Don't bother trying to explain this when the ex wants to get back together. They may try to use it to their advantage. Stick to your guns.

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If the two of you are supposed to get back together, you'll know. If there is a large amount of doubt that you should be together then let that be the guiding light. Go with your gut and with your head. If the two of you are better off with the other then wonderful! It's a good thing to get back together. If the feeling isn't mutual, though, then it might not be a good thing at all, regardless how badly your ex wants to get back together.


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Get Your Ex To Return Your Call

Hi,

Are there 'magic' words you can use to Get Your Ex To Return Your Call?

Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and
make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.

Cool huh?...

I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions
I get from the over 35,000 subscribers just like you that are trying to put their
relationship back together.

So I am going to answer..."How To get your ex to return your call, text or IM?"

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BUT...

*********** WARNING! ***********

In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay out a complete strategy.

If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may
damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.

******** What NOT to Say! **********

Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER
works to Get Your Ex To Return Your Call!

and worse...

Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.

These usually fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like

"John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."

And the EMERGENCY-

"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches?

So, I won't go on and on...

*** How To Use Curiosity &
Self Interest To Your Advantage ***

Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are

*Curiosity &
*Self Interest

And here's the BIG SECRET!

When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'

So...

Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME to
get your ex to return your call.

In a friendly tone:

"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?

John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?"
"What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking.
And he feels good because it is a positive message.

Now...

Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what
he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing...but needs to be plausible.

But more importantly...

************ 2nd WARNING! ************

Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out in the
Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.

If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they
call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not
handle it correctly.

Okay?

What I am saying is...

What you do before, during and after you get them to return your
call is MORE important than Get Your Ex To Return Your Call.

Make sense?

Please don't try this alone, you need to

Have A PLAN!


Rooting For You,
T Dub